One of the questions I hear most often before a boudoir session is:
“What should I wear?”
And my answer is always the same — wear what makes you feel most you.
Your boudoir session isn’t about fitting into anyone else’s idea of sexy. It’s about expression, confidence, and connection. Whether that’s lace lingerie, an oversized tee, or absolutely nothing at all, the best outfit is the one that helps you drop into your body and your power.
If you’re looking for a little inspiration (or a reason to treat yourself to something special), there are amazing local and online, size-inclusive options that make finding your look easy and empowering.
Before you start shopping, think about the energy you want to bring to your session.
Do you want to feel soft and romantic? Bold and powerful? Playful and colorful?
Choosing your vibe helps guide your outfit choices — from color palette to texture.
✨ Pro tip: Don’t limit yourself to what you think “boudoir” has to look like. Flowy robes, bodysuits, bralettes, sheer fabric, even a favorite button-down or leather jacket can photograph beautifully when it feels authentic to you.
Your wardrobe is simply another way to tell your story.

When it comes to lingerie, Nashville has some truly amazing, body-affirming options that celebrate every curve and identity. Here are two of my absolute favorites:
Located in Nashville, Nashville Darlin is a beautiful boutique with styles that range from flirty to fierce. They specialize in inclusive sizing and feature brands that actually fit real bodies. The shop’s vibe is warm, welcoming, and judgment-free — perfect for finding pieces that make you feel amazing.
Hey Mavens! is a woman-owned, handmade lingerie brand offering pieces for every body. Their range spans XXS to 6XL, with gorgeous stretch lace, bold jewel tones, and playful sets. Supporting Hey Mavens means supporting a local creative who shares the same inclusive values as we do.
If you can’t make it to a local boutique, or just want more variety, these online retailers offer amazing size-inclusive options:
✨ Tip: Many of these brands offer free returns, so you can try a few sizes and styles without stress. Just be sure to check shipping times!
Bring a few options that feel different — not because you need multiple looks, but because it gives us creative flexibility during your session.
Try mixing:
Even layering a robe or jacket can completely change the tone of an image.
Some of my favorite boudoir images don’t include lingerie at all. Consider bringing pieces like:
The goal isn’t to look a certain way; it’s to feel like yourself.
There’s no right or wrong way to dress for a boudoir session. What matters is that you feel empowered and comfortable. The most beautiful images always come from genuine confidence — not perfect matching sets.
When you’re comfortable, your body language shifts. You breathe deeper. You let go. You glow. And that’s the magic we’re after.

Your Nashville boudoir session is your permission slip to take up space, to show up fully, and to celebrate your body exactly as it is. Whether that means shopping locally at Nashville Darlin or Hey Mavens, or ordering online from inclusive brands like Cantiq LA or Thistle and Spire, what you wear should remind you that you’re already enough.

If you’re ready for a body-affirming boudoir experience in Nashville where softness and strength are both celebrated, I’d love to help you create something meaningful.
✨ Click here to learn more about my sessions or schedule your consultation.

